Whispering Oak Mansion
Raw space venue
The venue will provide just the space. You’ll bring in your own caterer and vendors.
Full wedding (ceremony and reception) pricing
Starting at $1,000 for off-peak dates, and $2,000 for peak dates
Packages
Prices start at $1,000
Guest capacity
Up to 50 seated guests
About this venue
Whispering Oak Mansion is a private estate wedding venue in Bear, Delaware designed for intimate celebrations. Host your wedding with 20–50 guests, enjoy garden ceremonies, overnight accommodations, and a relaxed, meaningful weekend experience.
Our event spaces
Outdoor Ceremony
Say “I do” beneath a pergola surrounded by trees and lush lawn in a serene two-acre setting.
Our outdoor ceremony space features a charming pergola set on a peaceful two-acre estate, surrounded by trees and open green lawn. It offers a romantic, natural setting where couples can exchange vows in a calm and intimate atmosphere, with plenty of space for guests to gather and enjoy the beauty of the surroundings.
Guest capacity
2-50 Seated
2-50 Standing
Ideal for
Wedding ceremony
Guests often feel this space is
“Relaxed”
Included in this room:
- Officiant - White Chairs - White silk rose petals decorating the runway - White fabric draped over the pergola - White fountain inside the pergola
Room cost
Starting at $1,000 for a wedding ceremony
Indoor Reception
An elegant reception space designed for intimate celebrations and meaningful gatherings.
Our elegant reception space offers an intimate setting designed for meaningful celebrations. Thoughtfully styled with natural light, beautiful arched windows, the perfect backdrop for dinner, toasts, and connection. Its versatile layout allows for beautifully arranged tables and personal décor touches that reflect your vision. Ideal for gatherings of up to 50 guests, the space creates a seamless flow from celebration to conversation, allowing your reception to feel truly unforgettable.
Guest capacity
2-50 Seated
2-50 Standing
Square footage
600
Ideal for
Wedding reception, Rehearsal dinner, Wedding shower, Welcome party, Farewell brunch, Couples luncheon, Cocktail hour, Engagement party, After party, Elopement
Guests often feel this space is
“Luxurious and chic”
Included in this room:
- Light dimmers - Rectangle and circle tables (your choice) - Chairs - Restroom - Cocktail Hour Space right outside the reception hall (your choice) - 3 Round High Top Tables for outdoor cocktail hour
Room cost
$4,000 for four hours; $500 additional hour
Outdoor Ceremony
Say “I do” beneath a pergola surrounded by trees and lush lawn in a serene two-acre setting.
Our outdoor ceremony space features a charming pergola set on a peaceful two-acre estate, surrounded by trees and open green lawn. It offers a romantic, natural setting where couples can exchange vows in a calm and intimate atmosphere, with plenty of space for guests to gather and enjoy the beauty of the surroundings.
Guest capacity
2-50 Seated
2-50 Standing
Ideal for
Wedding ceremony
Guests often feel this space is
“Relaxed”
Included in this room:
- Officiant - White Chairs - White silk rose petals decorating the runway - White fabric draped over the pergola - White fountain inside the pergola
Room cost
Starting at $1,000 for a wedding ceremony
Indoor Reception
An elegant reception space designed for intimate celebrations and meaningful gatherings.
Our elegant reception space offers an intimate setting designed for meaningful celebrations. Thoughtfully styled with natural light, beautiful arched windows, the perfect backdrop for dinner, toasts, and connection. Its versatile layout allows for beautifully arranged tables and personal décor touches that reflect your vision. Ideal for gatherings of up to 50 guests, the space creates a seamless flow from celebration to conversation, allowing your reception to feel truly unforgettable.
Guest capacity
2-50 Seated
2-50 Standing
Square footage
600
Ideal for
Wedding reception, Rehearsal dinner, Wedding shower, Welcome party, Farewell brunch, Couples luncheon, Cocktail hour, Engagement party, After party, Elopement
Guests often feel this space is
“Luxurious and chic”
Included in this room:
- Light dimmers - Rectangle and circle tables (your choice) - Chairs - Restroom - Cocktail Hour Space right outside the reception hall (your choice) - 3 Round High Top Tables for outdoor cocktail hour
Room cost
$4,000 for four hours; $500 additional hour
Whispering Oak Mansion packages
Elopement
2-50 guests
Peak pricing $2,000-6,000
Off-peak pricing $1,000-3,000
Perfect for couples who want something beautiful and simple.
- Ceremony Space, Officiant, Bridal Prep Suite
Intimate Wedding
2-50 guests
Peak pricing $5,000-8,000
Off-peak pricing $4,000-6,000
Host your ceremony and reception in one beautiful, private estate setting. Say “I do” beneath the pergola, then celebrate with up to 50 guests in an elegant indoor space. The intimate atmosphere allows for meaningful moments, relaxed flow, and a wedding experience that feels personal, romantic, and unforgettable.
- Ceremony Space, Reception Space, Bridal Prep Suite
- On-Site Assistant
- Honeymoon Suite with couple's jacuzzi
- Tables + Chairs
Wedding Weekend Experience
2-50 guests
Peak pricing $7,000-10,000
Off-peak pricing $6,000-8,000
Turn your wedding into a full weekend experience at Whispering Oak Mansion. Arrive with your closest friends and family, settle into the estate, and enjoy a relaxed evening together before your big day. Celebrate your ceremony and reception on-site, then unwind with your guests overnight. The next morning, gather for a peaceful farewell, extending the joy of your wedding into a meaningful and unforgettable weekend.
- Full Mansion Buyout
- Overnight Accommodations (9 guest rooms)
- Rehearsal Dinner Space
- Wedding Ceremony at the outdoor pergola
- Indoor Wedding Reception (up to 50 guests)
- Outdoor Cocktail Hour
- First Look Pictures inside/outside the mansion
- Officiant
- Breakfast for overnight guests
- Honeymoon Suite with couple's jacuzzi
- Newlyweds Romantic Package - champagne & surprise
Available services that can be provided by Whispering Oak Mansion
Services & amenities
- Catering services
- Clean up
- Dance floor
- Dressing room / Bridal Suite
- Event coordinator
- Liability insurance
- On-site accommodations
- Wedding cake services
- Wheelchair accessible
- Wifi
Transportation & access
- Self parking - free
Accommodations
- Bedroom suites
- Honeymoon suite
- Luxury suites
- Room blocks offered
- Single king rooms
Reviews
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1 review
- LA
Linda A.
Couple
Whispering Oak Mansion was the perfect fit for our wedding day. From our first conversation, the host and hostess answered every question we had and made themselves available whenever we needed them. The home itself is stunning, with plenty of space for our guests to move around comfortably and really enjoy the celebration. What impressed us most was how helpful they were at every turn—nothing was too small or too big for them to handle. Whether you're planning a small wedding, bridal shower, or any special event, we'd recommend this venue without hesitation. They genuinely cared about making our day special, and it showed.
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